There is Never a Good Reason to Disrespect Your Spouse:

I Honor You.

"Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude." – James William.

There is nothing wrong with disagreeing with your spouse. There is all the world wrong with disrespecting your spouse. That is something you don't want to ever do. It is sacrosanct. Don't ever go there.

Even if you are done with the relationship and want out, don't belittle your spouse. Please! Please!! Please!!! Don't. Why burn the bridge to a future you are not even aware of? Get a hold of yourself and never cross the boundaries, nor burn the bridges your life will be soon calling for.

You do know words released cannot be recalled. Right? Even if you later apologize. Even if your spouse forgives you and professes to forget. It does not erase the scars, and it does not take much for those scars to open up and expose a fresh wound. Your disrespectful words just about weaken the foundation, almost like forever. So, please don't go there.

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